- Muriah
I am shocked I didn't know that petition was that serious I mean I seen petitions tha K fans made and they never work out but this one was really serious and world wide that they really want to remove Jonghyun from Shinee over the comment he madeFor this to get that serious is a mess
Emjahay
- Em Jahay
I said it before they really sweep everything under the rug therepeople have no right to voice their unhappiness about serious thingsI mean come on look how long it took them to even do anything about sasaengsand that's not even completely dealt with - Muriah
right? 
Em Jahay
do you know why there are so many mean people towards each other and so many people who do not care as long as it is not them sufferingfor the reason these people are protesting in SKBecause talking about it and addressing the issue solves nothingThey just go on ignoring it and people suffer and hurt themselves and others- Muriah
Now it like you can't say anything either way if you agree or don't agree it like bullying coming at both angles depending on the side you stand on it like we have our opinion we have that right so why attack someone. So now people can't speak? 
11:16pmEm Jahay
I would love for one person to tell me I am wrong about it- Muriah
And thenit like people are going to start fearing to speak almost but when you have someone encouraging you to do something or to speakthen thatdoes give strength for a change - Em Jahay
most are afraid to speakI mean even look at their dramas and moviestheir mangaThey all depict the same thingsBullying and being bullied are a fact of life and when things are going bad you do not speak up because you end up in the spotlight insteadand that if you do speak up more than likely you will be ignored and it WILL get WORSE!There are several Manga's I have read by korean artists and the common factor in most of them is someone being bullied and gangs and fighting - Muriah
right it is horrible - Em Jahay
people would not be writing about that if it wasn't something they knew and were used tomany people write so people can relate not always but often enough
MuriahEm Jahay
yep
not much but a few thingsand some other ones I saw tooand even then the dramasyou write things that are believable things people can relate to and things they can daydream about happening to them
Muriah
There is a Japanese manga that touches on lives of people in different bad situation I mean I read this short series and was in tears because it like omg this is what life is for some people and they write these not for entertainment but to make appoint to bring dark things into the light
Emjahay
that show with IU she played pil suk or whatever
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- Muriah
LOL - Em Jahay
with Suzyand wooyoung - Muriah
yeah - Em Jahay
she was fat and she was teasedthat is a reality - Muriah
oh yeah I remember that part - Em Jahay
it's not there because it's FUN to see - Muriah
exactly that was not fun to watch - Em Jahay
I am sure many girls knew just what that was like too - Muriah
right
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Sunday, December 22, 2013
Annyeong Protest why I am joining
I started a conversation with one of my good friends Muriah about
this protest movement or at least I hope it becomes a movement,
Movements get noticed after all. so this is how the conversation started
after reading the links I previously shared. After the conversation
which has some of the reasons why I am supporting it but not much but
after the conversation my reasons are there.
Saturday, December 21, 2013
The Annyeong Protest
I am joining this cause -> http://kblendofawesomeness.wordpress.com/2013/12/18/the-annyeong-protest/
http://t.co/vnXT7v0eaF
The Annyeong protest in support of Koreans who are being silenced their very rights ignored. Discrimination is still not illegal there. Gay Bi Lesbian Transgenders people who are different from the straight people are not accepted. Though it is not widely accepted in many places there is at least some semblance of tolerance for it. As long as it's kept to a minimum in public some people don't care. They are not being heard when they voice their discontent with the way their country is. They have been protesting and only one media outlet has covered their protest and that was an independent website for news. We are hoping we can all work together to right a wrong and help this cause get global media interest and just show support to all those having a hard time to be heard lets help them share their voices
http://t.co/vnXT7v0eaF
The Annyeong protest in support of Koreans who are being silenced their very rights ignored. Discrimination is still not illegal there. Gay Bi Lesbian Transgenders people who are different from the straight people are not accepted. Though it is not widely accepted in many places there is at least some semblance of tolerance for it. As long as it's kept to a minimum in public some people don't care. They are not being heard when they voice their discontent with the way their country is. They have been protesting and only one media outlet has covered their protest and that was an independent website for news. We are hoping we can all work together to right a wrong and help this cause get global media interest and just show support to all those having a hard time to be heard lets help them share their voices
Sunday, December 1, 2013
Slut Shaming: Is it Necessary? (HyunA Edition)
First let me start out with the definition of “SLUT”
Slut or slattern is a term applied to an individual who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. The term is generally pejorative and most often used as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement, meaning "dirty or slovenly". [2] However, in recent times there have been attempts to "reclaim" the word, while some individuals embrace the title as a source of pride (Wikipedia)
Now the Definition of “SLUT SHAMING”
Slut shaming (also hyphenated, as slut-shaming) is a concept in philosophy on sexuality. It is a neologism used to describe the act of making any person feel guilty or inferior for certain sexual behaviors or desires that deviate from traditional or orthodox gender expectations or that which may be considered to be contrary to natural or religious law. Some examples of behaviors over which women are said to be "slut-shamed" include: violating accepted dress codes by dressing in sexually provocative ways, requesting access to birth control, [1] [2][3] having premarital or casual sex, or being raped or sexually assaulted (Wikipedia )
There is a reason why I put the definition of both. I want each reader to understand and see what exactly the definition of a slut is and why it is used so often when referring to a woman. I want the reader to understand that what they are doing is considered “Slut Shaming”.
As you can see from the title, this article is about the Kpop artist HyunA. It seems lately that she is often attacked and the word used to attack her is the word “Slut”. Frankly I am sick and tired of the word being missed used and also it is used to attack, bully, or demoralize a person. It actually makes me cringe when I hear the word being used especially when it’s used on a person that is far from being a “slut”. I know most people would say “Why are you defending her?” or “She is one because she does…..” But think about it people. How are you able to say such things about a person when you don’t know her, when she doesn’t like her concept, and also when she is stuck with this concept because she signed a contract?
I recently read articles about her latest MV with her Trouble Maker partner Hyunseung (BEAST) (http://www.soompi.com/2013/
Yes, the one thing that people fail to notice is she has no say really. If she does it better have something to do with her current image because if not the CEO will most likely refuse to listen. People really must think the life of a kpop artist or any type of music artist is so easy. But yet the ones constantly attacking a person would not be able to handle half the things these people have to go through. HuyunA has no choice. Once that pen hits the paper and she signs her name basically she is signing a contract with the Devil himself. Why? Because once you sign the company can do whatever they want with you. They can make you into anything that “THEY” see fit. Meaning her CEO wanted this image for her and now she is stuck with it. http://www.kpopstarz.com/
The point that her CEO had to basically say “HEY!!! HELLO!!! It was our idea” tell you something. No offense but the CEO is bit of a pervert. Because if you see this recent MV and he said that this was what he wanted? Seriously this is as close to porn as you can get. Don’t they consider this along the lines of soft porn? I am not a porn expert. I don’t watch the stuff but I know there are people out there that would know more about the different levels of porn. But believe me if they were allowed to take it father then yes this would be a porno. But no way would society let it go that far. But this is what she has to constantly put up with. And though we may speculate that the 2HyunA’s are dating in the end we should worry less about that a worry that maybe the ones you need to be angry with is the company themselves. I hate to see a young ladies image dragged through the mud because her company wants to push sex on everyone. She isn’t the only one that has to go through this but she is at least in the top 5 if not #1 in being called a “slut” constantly.
Well this is all I am writing for now. But this is something to think about. Remember when you are slut shaming you are hurting other HUMANS. Yes this woman and others are not queens or goddesses. They are human like you and me. So the next time you are using the word slut think about what you are saying and stop yourself.
*Second Writer for TAOFAE* MES
Monday, November 11, 2013
ALLKPOP
Not so shockingly AKP has been caught up in a scandal.
I have mentioned on many occasions that I do not like or trust them. Due to all that has happened I must inform all who read this blog I will be removing all links to the site. I leave you with this www.change.org/petitions/allkpop-com-shut-down-allkpop
Sincerely MJ
I have mentioned on many occasions that I do not like or trust them. Due to all that has happened I must inform all who read this blog I will be removing all links to the site. I leave you with this www.change.org/petitions/allkpop-com-shut-down-allkpop
Sincerely MJ
Monday, October 28, 2013
CJES taking action against netizens
For any information on this you can find the information -> http://jyj3.net/2012/12/03/news-121203-jyjs-agency-sued-over-20-netizens-for-malicious-comments/
Cjes has shown us fans that they are serious and taking as good care of JYJ as SM didn't take care of TVXQ\DBSK , NETIZENS, ANTI FANS, SASAENGS have spent too many years getting away with their actions towards these three men and now CJES is trying to bring an end to it! KUDOS TO YOU! JYP has in the past made several attempts to help some of their artists, and CJES has leaped into this fully I hope in the near future we see more companies trying to help their artists than adding more pain and abuse to their lives!
This is not the first time CJES has stepped up for JYJ http://www.dongbanger.com/latest/jyj-cjes-smackdown-netizens-false-rumor-12042012.html
Cjes has shown us fans that they are serious and taking as good care of JYJ as SM didn't take care of TVXQ\DBSK , NETIZENS, ANTI FANS, SASAENGS have spent too many years getting away with their actions towards these three men and now CJES is trying to bring an end to it! KUDOS TO YOU! JYP has in the past made several attempts to help some of their artists, and CJES has leaped into this fully I hope in the near future we see more companies trying to help their artists than adding more pain and abuse to their lives!
This is not the first time CJES has stepped up for JYJ http://www.dongbanger.com/latest/jyj-cjes-smackdown-netizens-false-rumor-12042012.html
Monday, October 14, 2013
at a loss for words
Wow just wow so today has been an interesting Thanks giving. First I read that a trot singer has gone to the police because her CEO put the date rape drug into her drink. Read that on www.onehallyu.com Link Below
http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/26903-trot-singer-files-a-report-against-her-ceo-for-sexual-assault/
The next thing relates not to Kpop but to the legal system and the educational system into the justice system. This is a sort of follow up to my previous topic on law enforcement.
http://omonatheydidnt.livejournal.com/11951041.html
There are so many things I can say about this but I am so tired and my brain just doesn't want to function. The thing I can say however is that Korea is too lax towards women who commit offenses, why did he get expelled and she got 3 months suspension expel her too! . There is NO REASON at all that is good enough to allow a woman of her morals to decide the fate of others.Because as if what she did by continuing to have an affair with a married man then tell his wife all the facts wasn't enough , she continued to break other rules and laws as well why should she get special treatment? stop letting toads into the system then maybe you would get real justice served.
http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/26903-trot-singer-files-a-report-against-her-ceo-for-sexual-assault/
The next thing relates not to Kpop but to the legal system and the educational system into the justice system. This is a sort of follow up to my previous topic on law enforcement.
http://omonatheydidnt.livejournal.com/11951041.html
There are so many things I can say about this but I am so tired and my brain just doesn't want to function. The thing I can say however is that Korea is too lax towards women who commit offenses, why did he get expelled and she got 3 months suspension expel her too! . There is NO REASON at all that is good enough to allow a woman of her morals to decide the fate of others.Because as if what she did by continuing to have an affair with a married man then tell his wife all the facts wasn't enough , she continued to break other rules and laws as well why should she get special treatment? stop letting toads into the system then maybe you would get real justice served.
Monday, October 7, 2013
Love the way you lie
This is an old post I had posted on my other blog June 5th 2012 But I felt it belonged on here so I posted it here, what with the sasaengs getting more extreme it seemed befitting though in this post I speak about tvxq and JYJ but it can be applied to all groups with sasaengs.
So the other day I was doing some research for my other blog to show the mindset of "fans" known as Sasaengs when I found a "stalking" video the video shows footage of Yoochun Park former member of TVXQ dbsk and member of JYJ being stalked by sasaeng. The thing that shocked me more than the video was the song used as audio for the video it was the first verse of Love The Way You Lie pt2 by rihanna.
The first verse goes like so
On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.
But you’ll always be my hero, even though you lost your mind.
do let me know if I am wrong but it seems to me as though the sasaeng is surprised that the idols dislike their actions and believe they are crazy .
On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.
But you’ll always be my hero, even though you lost your mind.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.
Now this gravel in our voices, glass is shattered from the fight.
In this tug of war, you’ll always win, even when I’m right.
Cause you feed me fables from your hand,
With violet words and empty threats and it’s sick that all these battles are what keeps me satisfied.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
So maybe I’m a masochist
I try to run but I don’t wanna ever leave.
Til the walls are goin’ up in smoke with all our memories.
[Eminem]
This morning, you wake, a sunray hits your face
smeared makeup as we lay in the wake of destruction
hush baby, speak softly, tell me I’ll be sorry that you
pushed me into the coffee table last night so I can push you off me
try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me
run out the room and I’ll follow you like a lost puppy
baby, without you, I’m nothing, I’m so lost, hug me
then tell me how ugly I am, but that you’ll always love me
then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the
destructive path that we’re on, two psychopaths but we
know that no matter how many knives we put in each other’s backs
that we’ll have each other’s backs, ’cause we’re that lucky
together, we move mountains, let’s not make mountains out of molehills,
you hit me twice, yeah, but who’s countin’
I may have hit you three times, I’m startin’ to lose count
but together, we’ll live forever, we found the youth fountain
our love is crazy, we’re nuts, but I refused counselin’
this house is too huge, if you move out I’ll burn all two thousand
square feet of it to the ground, ain’t shit you can do about it
with you I’m in my f–kin’ mind, without you, I’m out it
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.
the way the lyrics should go for the guys
On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.
Now this gravel in our voices, glass is shattered from the fight.
In this tug of war, you’ll always win, even when I’m right.
Cause you feed me fables from your hand,
With violet words and empty threats and it’s sick you lost your mind.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
So maybe I’m a masochist
I try to run but I don’t wanna ever leave.
Til the walls are goin’ up in smoke with all our memories.
[Eminem]
This morning, you wake, a sunray hits your face
smeared makeup in the wake of destruction
hush baby, speak softly, tell me I’ll be sorry that you
pushed me into the coffee table last night so I can push you off me
try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me
then tell me baby, without you, I’m nothing, I’m so lost, hug me
then tell me how ugly I am, but that you’ll always love me
then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the
destructive path that we’re on, two psychopaths let’s not make mountains out of molehills,
you hit me twice, yeah, but who’s countin’
I may have hit you three times, I’m startin’ to lose count
Your love is crazy, we’re nuts, ain’t shit you can do about it
without you, I’m in my f–kin’ mind, with you I’m out it
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.
The reason for the words like this easy in the beginning the guys didn't really have such crazy sasaengs but then the outrageous things started to happen The things they did got worse and worse and although they seem innocent those sasaengs are evil! Fans Lie they claim to love their "Oppa's" but instead they hurt them over and over again building them up and trying to crush them. The men keep entertaining because it is who they are they cannot stop and honestly I think even if they did stop they would still be stalked regardless. They love their fans and are tormented by everything. The sasaengs beat on the guys alot and there have been times they have defended themselves and times where they have been violent having had enough of the abuse they suffer at the hands of the Sasaengs. There is a love hate relationship between idol and sasaengs, sasaengs overly love them and love them in a bad way and sometimes they hate the idols for their rejection but still love them meanwhile idols hate sasaeng actions and most do not consider them fans but twisted fans. so that is that I am mainly rambling on .
The part that I find really describes the relationship between Kpop idols and sasaengs the best is
You ever love somebody so much, you could barely breathe when you with 'em?
You meet, and neither one of you even know it hit 'em
Got that warm fuzzy feeling, yeah, them chills, used to get 'em
Now you're gettin' fuckin' sick of lookin' at 'em
You swore you'd never hit 'em, never do nothing to hurt 'em
Now you're in each others face spewing venom in your words when you spit 'em
You push, pull each others hair, scratch, claw, bit 'em
Throw 'em down, pin 'em, so lost in the moments when you're in 'em
So the other day I was doing some research for my other blog to show the mindset of "fans" known as Sasaengs when I found a "stalking" video the video shows footage of Yoochun Park former member of TVXQ dbsk and member of JYJ being stalked by sasaeng. The thing that shocked me more than the video was the song used as audio for the video it was the first verse of Love The Way You Lie pt2 by rihanna.
The first verse goes like so
On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.
But you’ll always be my hero, even though you lost your mind.
do let me know if I am wrong but it seems to me as though the sasaeng is surprised that the idols dislike their actions and believe they are crazy .
On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.
But you’ll always be my hero, even though you lost your mind.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.
Now this gravel in our voices, glass is shattered from the fight.
In this tug of war, you’ll always win, even when I’m right.
Cause you feed me fables from your hand,
With violet words and empty threats and it’s sick that all these battles are what keeps me satisfied.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
So maybe I’m a masochist
I try to run but I don’t wanna ever leave.
Til the walls are goin’ up in smoke with all our memories.
[Eminem]
This morning, you wake, a sunray hits your face
smeared makeup as we lay in the wake of destruction
hush baby, speak softly, tell me I’ll be sorry that you
pushed me into the coffee table last night so I can push you off me
try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me
run out the room and I’ll follow you like a lost puppy
baby, without you, I’m nothing, I’m so lost, hug me
then tell me how ugly I am, but that you’ll always love me
then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the
destructive path that we’re on, two psychopaths but we
know that no matter how many knives we put in each other’s backs
that we’ll have each other’s backs, ’cause we’re that lucky
together, we move mountains, let’s not make mountains out of molehills,
you hit me twice, yeah, but who’s countin’
I may have hit you three times, I’m startin’ to lose count
but together, we’ll live forever, we found the youth fountain
our love is crazy, we’re nuts, but I refused counselin’
this house is too huge, if you move out I’ll burn all two thousand
square feet of it to the ground, ain’t shit you can do about it
with you I’m in my f–kin’ mind, without you, I’m out it
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.
the way the lyrics should go for the guys
On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.
Now this gravel in our voices, glass is shattered from the fight.
In this tug of war, you’ll always win, even when I’m right.
Cause you feed me fables from your hand,
With violet words and empty threats and it’s sick you lost your mind.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
So maybe I’m a masochist
I try to run but I don’t wanna ever leave.
Til the walls are goin’ up in smoke with all our memories.
[Eminem]
This morning, you wake, a sunray hits your face
smeared makeup in the wake of destruction
hush baby, speak softly, tell me I’ll be sorry that you
pushed me into the coffee table last night so I can push you off me
try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me
then tell me baby, without you, I’m nothing, I’m so lost, hug me
then tell me how ugly I am, but that you’ll always love me
then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the
destructive path that we’re on, two psychopaths let’s not make mountains out of molehills,
you hit me twice, yeah, but who’s countin’
I may have hit you three times, I’m startin’ to lose count
Your love is crazy, we’re nuts, ain’t shit you can do about it
without you, I’m in my f–kin’ mind, with you I’m out it
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.
The reason for the words like this easy in the beginning the guys didn't really have such crazy sasaengs but then the outrageous things started to happen The things they did got worse and worse and although they seem innocent those sasaengs are evil! Fans Lie they claim to love their "Oppa's" but instead they hurt them over and over again building them up and trying to crush them. The men keep entertaining because it is who they are they cannot stop and honestly I think even if they did stop they would still be stalked regardless. They love their fans and are tormented by everything. The sasaengs beat on the guys alot and there have been times they have defended themselves and times where they have been violent having had enough of the abuse they suffer at the hands of the Sasaengs. There is a love hate relationship between idol and sasaengs, sasaengs overly love them and love them in a bad way and sometimes they hate the idols for their rejection but still love them meanwhile idols hate sasaeng actions and most do not consider them fans but twisted fans. so that is that I am mainly rambling on .
The part that I find really describes the relationship between Kpop idols and sasaengs the best is
You ever love somebody so much, you could barely breathe when you with 'em?
You meet, and neither one of you even know it hit 'em
Got that warm fuzzy feeling, yeah, them chills, used to get 'em
Now you're gettin' fuckin' sick of lookin' at 'em
You swore you'd never hit 'em, never do nothing to hurt 'em
Now you're in each others face spewing venom in your words when you spit 'em
You push, pull each others hair, scratch, claw, bit 'em
Throw 'em down, pin 'em, so lost in the moments when you're in 'em
such shame
I have stated before that I am not a big fan of AKP due to their shadiness , however if you want to know what the talk of the kpop world is with all the rumors and all they generally have it. However after a recent stunt where they posted naked pictures of Ailee up I am removing all their links. While this new link is not the story that had me so enraged when I wrote this, the story is better written.
http://www.kdramastars.com/articles/10812/20131008/baek-ji-young-discusses-pain-caused-miscarriage-remarks.htm
http://www.asianjunkie.com/2013/10/baek-ji-young-sues-netizens-who-mocked-her-miscarriage-yes-really/
"A WS Entertainment rep responded, "Do these people who make sarcastic remarks and ridicule a woman who suffered a miscarriage have common sense? We will take action against netizens who gave deep emotional pain to Baek Ji Young and her family." another translation of the statement is
“Do the people, who managed to say things that are inconceivable to a woman who experienced an abortion, words that are fully of sarcasm and mockery, have common sense? We will proactively take action against the netizens who left Baek Ji Young and her family with deep scars.”
I was happy at least the company is taking action on her behalf.
There are somethings in life one should never touch upon no matter your opinions on a person . What gives a stranger the right to tell someone who is grieving the loss of their baby "If you feel sorry for the baby you should die quietly" I have said it several times in the past What the fuck is wrong with Koreans that they always tell their artists they should kill themselves ! why is suicide such a popular trend there? Korea obviously has A LONG list of things they need to improve in their society. Bullying, Stalking, Suicide the youth of Korea needs some help in the form of mental, medical and emotional support.
Being so far along and losing the baby is such a painful experience not just the main fact the baby will never smile up at you. At almost 5 months pregnant she would have actually have a still birth and the abortion process. The experience is emotionally mentally and physically painful . I am saddened to think there are people cruel enough to attack a woman in such a vulnerable position. What has she ever personally done wrong to you? Just because she is famous and married to a famous actor you spite her and attack her. I would never wish the kind of pain she went through onto anyone but I hope if those people are ever put in the same situation they realize just what rotten things they have done. The guilt will be their cross to bear but I get the feeling they wouldn't care people who do not value life enough to tell someone to kill themselves can never truly understand how precious life is.
I am at a loss of what else to say about this I can't believe I am only hearing about this now and it happened in June but I am happy to see actions have been taken towards netizens. Korea needs to make some changes we should not be seeing articles with headlines that involve hate comments towards miscarriage or sasaengs crash wedding or netizens tell -------- to die like his father or tell ------- they are glad their father died. How can people so cold and cruel be so proud? I will never understand.
http://www.kdramastars.com/articles/10812/20131008/baek-ji-young-discusses-pain-caused-miscarriage-remarks.htm
http://www.asianjunkie.com/2013/10/baek-ji-young-sues-netizens-who-mocked-her-miscarriage-yes-really/
"A WS Entertainment rep responded, "Do these people who make sarcastic remarks and ridicule a woman who suffered a miscarriage have common sense? We will take action against netizens who gave deep emotional pain to Baek Ji Young and her family." another translation of the statement is
“Do the people, who managed to say things that are inconceivable to a woman who experienced an abortion, words that are fully of sarcasm and mockery, have common sense? We will proactively take action against the netizens who left Baek Ji Young and her family with deep scars.”
I was happy at least the company is taking action on her behalf.
There are somethings in life one should never touch upon no matter your opinions on a person . What gives a stranger the right to tell someone who is grieving the loss of their baby "If you feel sorry for the baby you should die quietly" I have said it several times in the past What the fuck is wrong with Koreans that they always tell their artists they should kill themselves ! why is suicide such a popular trend there? Korea obviously has A LONG list of things they need to improve in their society. Bullying, Stalking, Suicide the youth of Korea needs some help in the form of mental, medical and emotional support.
Being so far along and losing the baby is such a painful experience not just the main fact the baby will never smile up at you. At almost 5 months pregnant she would have actually have a still birth and the abortion process. The experience is emotionally mentally and physically painful . I am saddened to think there are people cruel enough to attack a woman in such a vulnerable position. What has she ever personally done wrong to you? Just because she is famous and married to a famous actor you spite her and attack her. I would never wish the kind of pain she went through onto anyone but I hope if those people are ever put in the same situation they realize just what rotten things they have done. The guilt will be their cross to bear but I get the feeling they wouldn't care people who do not value life enough to tell someone to kill themselves can never truly understand how precious life is.
I am at a loss of what else to say about this I can't believe I am only hearing about this now and it happened in June but I am happy to see actions have been taken towards netizens. Korea needs to make some changes we should not be seeing articles with headlines that involve hate comments towards miscarriage or sasaengs crash wedding or netizens tell -------- to die like his father or tell ------- they are glad their father died. How can people so cold and cruel be so proud? I will never understand.
Friday, October 4, 2013
Why artists and others do not rely on the justice system too often
First off I am sorry for my absence. I have been dealing with a lot of various things and have been lazy and neglectful, I am sorry.
In this post there are a few things I would like to touch up. I will start with why people have no faith in the justice system and are less likely to call the cops and seek help when dealing with many situations. Also why they end up giving up the fight.
From personal experience in dealing with the justice system I have come to a certain understanding. You see there was a time last year where I called the cops on my ex boyfriend for threatening to kill me. I went to court where I spoke with a social worker and the Prosecutor but as of yet I have not even gone to court yet for that case. During my visits there I learned I had 3 main choices 2 of those choices gave him no punishment for his actions at all and the 3rd well that would be left to the court to decide in a trial. My options were as follows I press charges and go to trial and the court decides and I have no more restraining order. I could drop charges and keep my restraining order which would only be good for a year, doing that he would have nothing in his criminal file. The second option was much of the same thing except he would admit to the judge he did something that made me feel threatened enough to call the cops but once again nothing would be in his file. Excuse me but does no one else see something wrong with that? If a person threatens to kill someone that should STAY in their record as a testament of their behavior. A lot of people that end up being caught for murder how many of them have also previously threatened someone but those cases were dropped?
Another reason why people do not go through with pressing charges is the time it takes! My case happened 2 summers ago and I am still waiting! You spend so much time being scared or paranoid and then one day you just don't give a shit anymore and keep living as normal. You get to a point where the only thing you can think is "what's the point now?" or "what's the use?" If it takes that much time over just one person can you imagine how it would be for an idol with their many sasaeng fans? Because the idols have the mind set of "why bother" or "what's the use" Sasaeng fans keep doing the things they know they shouldn't be doing or perhaps some do not think of it in that way at all but the bottom line is they do it because they know they can get away with it. They know the idols do not have the time to deal with court issues when they have to be out there making $ for their bosses who don't care enough to make life easier for them.
Recently there has been alot of disgusting things going on with Exo who is part of SME, it's no surprise that they would have sasaengs since many if not all SME artists have them. The real disgusting thing is that SME never does anything to make things better for the artists it has under it's roof. Super Junior has been dealing with sasaengs and Anti-fans for most of their existence SME does not try to make life better for it's artists The youngest member of Super Junior didn't even have his own bed at first and it was fans who bought him one. SME is one of the companies that would never give it's artists a fair amount of time off Their motto surely could be "No Work,No Pay. No Jusitce!" When I heard sasaengs crashed when of Exo's brothers weddings I was furious! To know about that you can check the link down below props to him wearing my fave hockey team on his coat xD
http://www.officiallykmusic.com/sasaeng-fans-crash-exos-baekhyuns-brothers-wedding/
The reason why I picked this link is because these people got it right, if you do not support the action do not post sasaeng photos with your article your action is encouraging even if your words are barbed wires. There is a site which I will not name because I will not encourage people to go and see the post with all the sasaengs photos but the post and all the comments are filled with hate and anger believing the actions were wrong . However they have Many photos taken by sasaengs on it we do not need to see the photos to know what was done was wrong and disagree with it.
The Exo Fandom is pretty wild causing the fandom to be banned from a music shows tapings. Like their fans the Sasaengs that exo have are pretty extreme as crashing the wedding goes above normal stalker behavior. Sasaeng fans are getting scarier and scarier, it's no longer a matter of them breaking into houses calling cellphones nonstop hiding cttv camera and those other nasty things like leaving personal female hygiene things or body liquids and hair for them. They physically assault them for "ignoring them" Exo's main vocalist not only had his brothers wedding crashed but he was also struck in the throat for "ignoring" them, they also sent him a message threatening him if he treated them that way again.
There was another case a friend told me about where a fan kept kicking B1A4's Baro when he fell down.
Only happened cause his hands were filled with the crutches so he couldn't take the fanmade card.
I have been looking up older articles about sasaengs and things they have done and I will share one of them now
http://netizenbuzz.blogspot.fr/2013/03/pann-g-dragons-sister-explains-what.html *There were many things written here that shocked me*
This comment from that same link really caught me Guest
• 7 months ago
What I find strange are the fangirls who say that is the price of fame and these guys should just deal with it. Really? What if it was female idols being followed by strange men. Who grab their breast, slap their butt. Spray them with semen, and send them Jizz Letters. Who break into their houses and try to kiss them when their sleeping. Will that be okay, would we blame the girls for acting in frustration. Let's stop the sexism of saying these sasengs are women, so they must be treated with kid gloves.
There is ALOT of sexism where sasaengs are involved when the cops would be called the sasaengs got off with warnings only. Many claims have been made where the cops will say "she did it out of love" or "she's only a young girl" since a wide variety of ages are present in the sasaeng base it's not always easy to tell who will just be let off. Also Male idols do not like to show their weakness even more than an average man because unlike the average man everyone will know about his inability to hand a mass of teenaged girls. It's all very sexist you may be able to take on 1 woman but a hoard of them is not a laughing matter a good number of the time when they have no cares beyond making any kind of impression.
There are some fans who are boarderline sasaengs These are the fans that are no better than sasaengs themselves. Here are 2 comments my friends and I strongly disagreed with on a facebook post related to this article. http://www.kpopstarz.com/articles/43339/20131001/exo-kris-tao-stalker-fans-message.htm
Before I post the comments here is my friends reaction to the fb photo of the article and the comments the so called fans posted.
This is my friends reaction to the comments she read on that post
WTF....*seething* some fans are so STUPID!!! I want to strangle this one fan. If you don't see the comment I will copy and paste it. You think sasaengs are the only problem then you have opinionated "fans" that think they know everything and think they have the right to say that if celebrities don't want their private lives invaded they shouldn't be celebrities period. What an ignorant thing to say.
Now the two comments
This person spammed this message throughout the comments
Jang Aya Fujimiya: if you do want a personal and private life to live with then QUIT..! TSSS PISSED ME OFF WITH YOUR THOUGHTS !! GOSH..!! STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT WHAT FAN'S DOING ISN'T WHAT YOU WANTED ?? THAT'S WHY YOU TOOK TO BE A CELEBRITY?? DUH OBVIOUSLY SUCH A GAYISH ACTION AND THOUGHTS...YOU CHOOSE WHAT YOU GOT SO STOP FEELING AS IF THEY ALL RUINED YOUR WHOLE LIFE ...!! THEY'RE NOT THE PROTAGONIST HERE..THEY'RE JUST A FAN...A FAN WHO GAVE ALL THE FAME YOU GOT...sorry for the word and thoughts am aLso a fan here.. were even.! so wake up you may not be expecting it but beLieve it or not this is the MERE CONSEQUENCE of where you at now...^___^ LOVE YAH...mwuahugs...so don't be mad already just fake a smiLe and everything will be fine..
Re Za Ae :Huh. . what the hell. .that was fan is love u so much. u should not scold them but talk properly. what actress r u
To not see anything wrong with the things sasaengs do though it is their views and opinions we must disagree with them fullheartedly YES entertainers expect a certain level of privacy invasion but not to the point hoards of "fans" are attacking tenants in their building or crashing their brothers wedding or above all breaking into their homes stealing from them and calling them at all hours of the day. They expect a certain amount of lurkers at certain places and times but they do not expect to have people breathing down their necks and chasing after them in cars across town half the day to everyday. Everyone expects a certain level of privacy and respect along with their fame they know they will have to give up some privacy but they should not have to tolerate such disregard to their safety and their human rights.
I will end this post here for tonight I will definitely be back to post more
Sincerely Emjahay
In this post there are a few things I would like to touch up. I will start with why people have no faith in the justice system and are less likely to call the cops and seek help when dealing with many situations. Also why they end up giving up the fight.
From personal experience in dealing with the justice system I have come to a certain understanding. You see there was a time last year where I called the cops on my ex boyfriend for threatening to kill me. I went to court where I spoke with a social worker and the Prosecutor but as of yet I have not even gone to court yet for that case. During my visits there I learned I had 3 main choices 2 of those choices gave him no punishment for his actions at all and the 3rd well that would be left to the court to decide in a trial. My options were as follows I press charges and go to trial and the court decides and I have no more restraining order. I could drop charges and keep my restraining order which would only be good for a year, doing that he would have nothing in his criminal file. The second option was much of the same thing except he would admit to the judge he did something that made me feel threatened enough to call the cops but once again nothing would be in his file. Excuse me but does no one else see something wrong with that? If a person threatens to kill someone that should STAY in their record as a testament of their behavior. A lot of people that end up being caught for murder how many of them have also previously threatened someone but those cases were dropped?
Another reason why people do not go through with pressing charges is the time it takes! My case happened 2 summers ago and I am still waiting! You spend so much time being scared or paranoid and then one day you just don't give a shit anymore and keep living as normal. You get to a point where the only thing you can think is "what's the point now?" or "what's the use?" If it takes that much time over just one person can you imagine how it would be for an idol with their many sasaeng fans? Because the idols have the mind set of "why bother" or "what's the use" Sasaeng fans keep doing the things they know they shouldn't be doing or perhaps some do not think of it in that way at all but the bottom line is they do it because they know they can get away with it. They know the idols do not have the time to deal with court issues when they have to be out there making $ for their bosses who don't care enough to make life easier for them.
Recently there has been alot of disgusting things going on with Exo who is part of SME, it's no surprise that they would have sasaengs since many if not all SME artists have them. The real disgusting thing is that SME never does anything to make things better for the artists it has under it's roof. Super Junior has been dealing with sasaengs and Anti-fans for most of their existence SME does not try to make life better for it's artists The youngest member of Super Junior didn't even have his own bed at first and it was fans who bought him one. SME is one of the companies that would never give it's artists a fair amount of time off Their motto surely could be "No Work,No Pay. No Jusitce!" When I heard sasaengs crashed when of Exo's brothers weddings I was furious! To know about that you can check the link down below props to him wearing my fave hockey team on his coat xD
http://www.officiallykmusic.com/sasaeng-fans-crash-exos-baekhyuns-brothers-wedding/
The reason why I picked this link is because these people got it right, if you do not support the action do not post sasaeng photos with your article your action is encouraging even if your words are barbed wires. There is a site which I will not name because I will not encourage people to go and see the post with all the sasaengs photos but the post and all the comments are filled with hate and anger believing the actions were wrong . However they have Many photos taken by sasaengs on it we do not need to see the photos to know what was done was wrong and disagree with it.
The Exo Fandom is pretty wild causing the fandom to be banned from a music shows tapings. Like their fans the Sasaengs that exo have are pretty extreme as crashing the wedding goes above normal stalker behavior. Sasaeng fans are getting scarier and scarier, it's no longer a matter of them breaking into houses calling cellphones nonstop hiding cttv camera and those other nasty things like leaving personal female hygiene things or body liquids and hair for them. They physically assault them for "ignoring them" Exo's main vocalist not only had his brothers wedding crashed but he was also struck in the throat for "ignoring" them, they also sent him a message threatening him if he treated them that way again.
There was another case a friend told me about where a fan kept kicking B1A4's Baro when he fell down.
Only happened cause his hands were filled with the crutches so he couldn't take the fanmade card.
I have been looking up older articles about sasaengs and things they have done and I will share one of them now
http://netizenbuzz.blogspot.fr/2013/03/pann-g-dragons-sister-explains-what.html *There were many things written here that shocked me*
This comment from that same link really caught me Guest
• 7 months ago
What I find strange are the fangirls who say that is the price of fame and these guys should just deal with it. Really? What if it was female idols being followed by strange men. Who grab their breast, slap their butt. Spray them with semen, and send them Jizz Letters. Who break into their houses and try to kiss them when their sleeping. Will that be okay, would we blame the girls for acting in frustration. Let's stop the sexism of saying these sasengs are women, so they must be treated with kid gloves.
There is ALOT of sexism where sasaengs are involved when the cops would be called the sasaengs got off with warnings only. Many claims have been made where the cops will say "she did it out of love" or "she's only a young girl" since a wide variety of ages are present in the sasaeng base it's not always easy to tell who will just be let off. Also Male idols do not like to show their weakness even more than an average man because unlike the average man everyone will know about his inability to hand a mass of teenaged girls. It's all very sexist you may be able to take on 1 woman but a hoard of them is not a laughing matter a good number of the time when they have no cares beyond making any kind of impression.
There are some fans who are boarderline sasaengs These are the fans that are no better than sasaengs themselves. Here are 2 comments my friends and I strongly disagreed with on a facebook post related to this article. http://www.kpopstarz.com/articles/43339/20131001/exo-kris-tao-stalker-fans-message.htm
Before I post the comments here is my friends reaction to the fb photo of the article and the comments the so called fans posted.
This is my friends reaction to the comments she read on that post
WTF....*seething* some fans are so STUPID!!! I want to strangle this one fan. If you don't see the comment I will copy and paste it. You think sasaengs are the only problem then you have opinionated "fans" that think they know everything and think they have the right to say that if celebrities don't want their private lives invaded they shouldn't be celebrities period. What an ignorant thing to say.
Now the two comments
This person spammed this message throughout the comments
Jang Aya Fujimiya: if you do want a personal and private life to live with then QUIT..! TSSS PISSED ME OFF WITH YOUR THOUGHTS !! GOSH..!! STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT WHAT FAN'S DOING ISN'T WHAT YOU WANTED ?? THAT'S WHY YOU TOOK TO BE A CELEBRITY?? DUH OBVIOUSLY SUCH A GAYISH ACTION AND THOUGHTS...YOU CHOOSE WHAT YOU GOT SO STOP FEELING AS IF THEY ALL RUINED YOUR WHOLE LIFE ...!! THEY'RE NOT THE PROTAGONIST HERE..THEY'RE JUST A FAN...A FAN WHO GAVE ALL THE FAME YOU GOT...sorry for the word and thoughts am aLso a fan here.. were even.! so wake up you may not be expecting it but beLieve it or not this is the MERE CONSEQUENCE of where you at now...^___^ LOVE YAH...mwuahugs...so don't be mad already just fake a smiLe and everything will be fine..
Re Za Ae :Huh. . what the hell. .that was fan is love u so much. u should not scold them but talk properly. what actress r u
To not see anything wrong with the things sasaengs do though it is their views and opinions we must disagree with them fullheartedly YES entertainers expect a certain level of privacy invasion but not to the point hoards of "fans" are attacking tenants in their building or crashing their brothers wedding or above all breaking into their homes stealing from them and calling them at all hours of the day. They expect a certain amount of lurkers at certain places and times but they do not expect to have people breathing down their necks and chasing after them in cars across town half the day to everyday. Everyone expects a certain level of privacy and respect along with their fame they know they will have to give up some privacy but they should not have to tolerate such disregard to their safety and their human rights.
I will end this post here for tonight I will definitely be back to post more
Sincerely Emjahay
Thursday, July 4, 2013
update on the world of KPOP
Guilty of not updating in far too long.
I cannot possibly unravel all the stories that have been shared in the time I have been away but I will throw some things out there.
B.A.P had concerts in USA and they were able to go around pretty much unharrassed from the moment of their arrival until their departure. would that happen in Korean? HELL NO! it is too uncommon for Korean Idols to move freely on home soil that is not to say it isn't hard to get around in other places too many of us have read the stories after all of the events that transpire in Japan and China as well as some other places time to time.
Kim Jaejoong of JYJ former TVXQ member has been touring and he had a wonderful tour that has now come to an end. I was happy to see him fairing so well for a change it could just be me but I find his stress lines have decreased.
Block B struck out they should follow in JYJ's glorious footsteps and contact cjes.
Lizzie from After School broke her leg and the rumor mill is a buzz and I have no idea what the truth is I do not want to post the site or blog my friend sent me that showed the information. According to the blog the Pledis CEO demanded a lap dance from her when she was practicing her poledance for their new song "anyone else think it is wrong that these women are pole dancing?" when she refused to do it she was attacked by him and other staff members who all stomped on her leg and she was then forced to post pictures with her cast to show she was ok. I somehow find this extremely hard to believe and if it is true I will be very disappointed because that is the company Nu'Est is part of and I really love that group.
The group I was originally part of that had me starting this blog in the first place has fallen apart and that is why I have not really been posting as much . Though honestly my life has become rather hectic with my health not being 100%. I will not abandon this blog just because the group itself seems to have become a ghost town I have little energy to try to revive once again. I am trying so hard to keep my own life balanced but I will not desert this blog even if I am gone for weeks or months at a time I ask you for forgiveness as I apologize for my absence in advance.
I cannot possibly unravel all the stories that have been shared in the time I have been away but I will throw some things out there.
B.A.P had concerts in USA and they were able to go around pretty much unharrassed from the moment of their arrival until their departure. would that happen in Korean? HELL NO! it is too uncommon for Korean Idols to move freely on home soil that is not to say it isn't hard to get around in other places too many of us have read the stories after all of the events that transpire in Japan and China as well as some other places time to time.
Kim Jaejoong of JYJ former TVXQ member has been touring and he had a wonderful tour that has now come to an end. I was happy to see him fairing so well for a change it could just be me but I find his stress lines have decreased.
Block B struck out they should follow in JYJ's glorious footsteps and contact cjes.
Lizzie from After School broke her leg and the rumor mill is a buzz and I have no idea what the truth is I do not want to post the site or blog my friend sent me that showed the information. According to the blog the Pledis CEO demanded a lap dance from her when she was practicing her poledance for their new song "anyone else think it is wrong that these women are pole dancing?" when she refused to do it she was attacked by him and other staff members who all stomped on her leg and she was then forced to post pictures with her cast to show she was ok. I somehow find this extremely hard to believe and if it is true I will be very disappointed because that is the company Nu'Est is part of and I really love that group.
The group I was originally part of that had me starting this blog in the first place has fallen apart and that is why I have not really been posting as much . Though honestly my life has become rather hectic with my health not being 100%. I will not abandon this blog just because the group itself seems to have become a ghost town I have little energy to try to revive once again. I am trying so hard to keep my own life balanced but I will not desert this blog even if I am gone for weeks or months at a time I ask you for forgiveness as I apologize for my absence in advance.
Saturday, March 16, 2013
Petition
https://www.change.org/petitions/governor-park-won-soon-create-a-bill-to-protect-korean-celebrities-from-fan-actvities?utm_campaign=friend_inviter_chat&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=share_petition&utm_term=permissions_dialog_true
we have decided to try and get a law put in place like the recent one in the states called the Steve Tyler bill in hopes to give stars some breathing space please help us help them by signing the petition.
UPDATE
Just recently Nov 2013 there has been a Sasaeng law made, or so I have heard once I know more I will share in full detail .
we have decided to try and get a law put in place like the recent one in the states called the Steve Tyler bill in hopes to give stars some breathing space please help us help them by signing the petition.
UPDATE
Just recently Nov 2013 there has been a Sasaeng law made, or so I have heard once I know more I will share in full detail .
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Culture differences?
Culture is not the only thing that impacts fandoms the generations of fans have changed as well . In my time the age of boybands included heart throbs like nsync, LFO, 98*, Hanson, BSB, O TOWN, Moffatts, boys 2 men, ALL4ONE, Dream Street These groups had so many fans and yet how much do we know about their lives? what do we know about their private lives? we know a little about Nsync and we know a little about 1 member of 98* because of the media. These are of coarse only the American+ Canadian Boy groups The groups from the UK I know even less about their private lives.
Most if not all the members of BSB are married with children, Hanson are all married, 98* I honestly haven't heard about any of the members but I am almost sure at least one of the other members is married.
O-Town members practically vanished Ashley Angel had the most success after the disbandment and that is the only reason why it's a known fact that he has a child and a failed relationship then he practically vanished as well the only thing really known about him is he mainly does voice acting.
I actually don't know anything about the other groups and their private lives. I do not search for it and only find things out when other people mention them.
now if we were to flip the coin from then to now you have one main fan base that stands out a fan base that does some very amazing things among themselves that we did not have in my time however Beiber fandom does some scary stuff too . What has changed so much from when I was 15 to now that I am 2 yrs shy of 30?
People these days are more culturally diverse compared to before now that technology is at it's highest point. I mean music only got accessible on all fronts when I was about 15 or 16. I downloaded my first Korean and japanese tracks when I was 17 between the ages of 19-24 I became aware of how popular Asian culture and arts were with North americans and people all over the world really. People have been influenced by these things they admired and have followed suit. Am I blaming the Asian fandom culture no do I think part of it may play a part? we subconsciously pick up things from others we like admire talk to hang out with see on tv everyday. Also with different types of bullying increasing our youth are going down dangerous paths. Where is the guidance we did not have such bad mannerisms, we also treated our artists well and now our youth are cutting themselves for attention , causing trouble for their favoured artists. In the USA they have made a law to protect their artists called the steve tyler bill which I think needs to be in place all over the world.
Now if we go to Asian music culture particularly KPOP the fanbases have become a subculture of their culture. That culture has been warped over the years as well and now it is to a point where something really needs to be done. "Fans" being happy about putting the artists through discomfort, and claiming they plan to do worse. They are doing more things because they never face punishment. Bullying is a norm as long as it's not happening to you it doesn't matter unless you are an entertainer being accused of doing it. They seem to scapegoat and trash talk tear down their entertainers. I never look at things written about north american entertainers and their fans and think OMG one day they are going to kill them! but I find myself wondering when I will read an article about a Korean entertainers accidental death. are they waiting for some Manslaughter incident to happen before they take action?
Fans from these days are so different the fan wars, the rumors, speculations, the anger burning and breaking merchandise just because the person is dating someone you like or because they said your bias was their ideal partner. something needs to be done with the obsessive behaviour of these women they need some group meetings self help sessions therapy other things they can do with their time than skipping school, following the idols, breaking into their homes, setting up cameras to monitor them.
Most if not all the members of BSB are married with children, Hanson are all married, 98* I honestly haven't heard about any of the members but I am almost sure at least one of the other members is married.
O-Town members practically vanished Ashley Angel had the most success after the disbandment and that is the only reason why it's a known fact that he has a child and a failed relationship then he practically vanished as well the only thing really known about him is he mainly does voice acting.
I actually don't know anything about the other groups and their private lives. I do not search for it and only find things out when other people mention them.
now if we were to flip the coin from then to now you have one main fan base that stands out a fan base that does some very amazing things among themselves that we did not have in my time however Beiber fandom does some scary stuff too . What has changed so much from when I was 15 to now that I am 2 yrs shy of 30?
People these days are more culturally diverse compared to before now that technology is at it's highest point. I mean music only got accessible on all fronts when I was about 15 or 16. I downloaded my first Korean and japanese tracks when I was 17 between the ages of 19-24 I became aware of how popular Asian culture and arts were with North americans and people all over the world really. People have been influenced by these things they admired and have followed suit. Am I blaming the Asian fandom culture no do I think part of it may play a part? we subconsciously pick up things from others we like admire talk to hang out with see on tv everyday. Also with different types of bullying increasing our youth are going down dangerous paths. Where is the guidance we did not have such bad mannerisms, we also treated our artists well and now our youth are cutting themselves for attention , causing trouble for their favoured artists. In the USA they have made a law to protect their artists called the steve tyler bill which I think needs to be in place all over the world.
Now if we go to Asian music culture particularly KPOP the fanbases have become a subculture of their culture. That culture has been warped over the years as well and now it is to a point where something really needs to be done. "Fans" being happy about putting the artists through discomfort, and claiming they plan to do worse. They are doing more things because they never face punishment. Bullying is a norm as long as it's not happening to you it doesn't matter unless you are an entertainer being accused of doing it. They seem to scapegoat and trash talk tear down their entertainers. I never look at things written about north american entertainers and their fans and think OMG one day they are going to kill them! but I find myself wondering when I will read an article about a Korean entertainers accidental death. are they waiting for some Manslaughter incident to happen before they take action?
Fans from these days are so different the fan wars, the rumors, speculations, the anger burning and breaking merchandise just because the person is dating someone you like or because they said your bias was their ideal partner. something needs to be done with the obsessive behaviour of these women they need some group meetings self help sessions therapy other things they can do with their time than skipping school, following the idols, breaking into their homes, setting up cameras to monitor them.
world of kpop my updates
I have been away for a long time, I have had many personal issues to deal with .
Please remember everything I share in my posts are either opinions or shared from someone else. This is not a stir-pot of rumors I am not here to create, validate or discredit any of the he said she said but I will state my stance in it if I have one.
The world of Kpop has been up in a blaze rumors about dating seem to be the main thing right now. I don't get it really I never have why is it such a bug thing in Asian culture to invade the artists privacy and such. I mean really BSB and Hanson are 2 once upon a boyband heart throb men who are almost all either married with children or married. Hanson members are apparently all married and BSB have children except Nick Carter.
In other news The battle between Stardom and Block B continues , There are so many things about this that just screams bad business. I have Never heard of Parents paying for their children to go on tour by paying their airfare. I think fans now know the reason why they didn't go abroad airplane tickets are expensive! they should have to refund that money to the parents. The parents paid because they wanted to help make their child's dreams come true but that was not a price they had to pay that was the companies job. The employees are part of the company therefore it should be the companies responsibility to refund the members even if it was not them who scammed the boys. They allowed characters into their employment who took advantage of them and left them high and dry they have a responsibility to make amends.
We put out our Christmas and new years wishes to Korean entertainment artists it's gotten some views but if the artists whom I tweeted the video to actually saw it , well I can only hope. There haven't really been comments though there was one email I received but before I could read it the person's account was terminated. I also posted the photo's or most of them on yfrog so they could see the messages without going through the video which I highlighted each time for each new set of messages to different artists.
If you want to watch the video and any other videos we make for artists you can search for the youtube channel 1985 Kefu http://www.youtube.com/user/1985kefu
In other new Jang Keun Suk and Team H are showing no signs of sasaeng stress for once , I wonder if it's due to being in Japan? they have gotten #2 on Japan Orion chart and #1 on China's His last video just might cause a few rumors. I can already imagine one or two of them now "JANG KEUN SUK NOT GAY!" "JANG KEUN SUK PERVERT BEHAVIOUR IN VIDEO" so on so forth my jaw dropped when I saw him between those booties and the actions he did too but at the same time I couldn't help smiling I am anxious to see what people have to say about it.
I haven't seen Super Junior members making any complaints about hacked accounts, being followed or over all annoyance with anyone but then again I do not read Hangul so what do I know? though no elf's on my twitter have been making a fuss.
JYJ fans have reason to celebrate from recent talk they will be performing in Tokyo Dome.... JJ's lyrics to his songs are being translated and posted everywhere but I am now finding different translations all over the place.
http://sorryurlhere.tumblr.com/post/44007241774/after-reading-those-jaejoong-lyrics These lyrics had Ovaries around the world exploding. I have seen posts recently on twitter some fans wanting Yoochun solo album seems to be the main request they are asking for. I haven't seen much in regards to xiah but I have restricted the amount of jyj fans I have on my twitter because they are the fans I have the least tolerance for DB5K fans Homin+JYJ fans are all extreme in one thing or another. Extreme Shippers,Extreme solo fans of certain members who practically tear the group apart. Extreme fans who hate on one group or the other because they are no longer a group of 5 and so many other things. JYJ fans get extreme though really I guess it's not to say their fans since most starting the troubles are "solo" fans of one of the 3 members making trouble because so and so has more commercials or so and so is doing a solo tour or this one is in dramas and this one is in a movie this one now has a solo album so why not the other.
Dating rumors on the rise include Homin's Min Changmin and Victoria are in the rumor mill in result of some very creepy fan work. Victoria posted a picture from her meal on twitter and fans looked at the very small reflections in get this a spoon! Seriously you nothing better to do then look for reflections in objects in photos.
http://www.officiallykmusic.com/fans-find-more-evidence-claiming-victorias-and-changmins-relationship/
How obsessed do you have to be to check things like that? Obsession is a disorder it is a sickness. Other person in the rumor mill is Sooyoung She is being matched with a actor. This Sooyoung second dating scandal.
Please remember everything I share in my posts are either opinions or shared from someone else. This is not a stir-pot of rumors I am not here to create, validate or discredit any of the he said she said but I will state my stance in it if I have one.
The world of Kpop has been up in a blaze rumors about dating seem to be the main thing right now. I don't get it really I never have why is it such a bug thing in Asian culture to invade the artists privacy and such. I mean really BSB and Hanson are 2 once upon a boyband heart throb men who are almost all either married with children or married. Hanson members are apparently all married and BSB have children except Nick Carter.
In other news The battle between Stardom and Block B continues , There are so many things about this that just screams bad business. I have Never heard of Parents paying for their children to go on tour by paying their airfare. I think fans now know the reason why they didn't go abroad airplane tickets are expensive! they should have to refund that money to the parents. The parents paid because they wanted to help make their child's dreams come true but that was not a price they had to pay that was the companies job. The employees are part of the company therefore it should be the companies responsibility to refund the members even if it was not them who scammed the boys. They allowed characters into their employment who took advantage of them and left them high and dry they have a responsibility to make amends.
We put out our Christmas and new years wishes to Korean entertainment artists it's gotten some views but if the artists whom I tweeted the video to actually saw it , well I can only hope. There haven't really been comments though there was one email I received but before I could read it the person's account was terminated. I also posted the photo's or most of them on yfrog so they could see the messages without going through the video which I highlighted each time for each new set of messages to different artists.
If you want to watch the video and any other videos we make for artists you can search for the youtube channel 1985 Kefu http://www.youtube.com/user/1985kefu
In other new Jang Keun Suk and Team H are showing no signs of sasaeng stress for once , I wonder if it's due to being in Japan? they have gotten #2 on Japan Orion chart and #1 on China's His last video just might cause a few rumors. I can already imagine one or two of them now "JANG KEUN SUK NOT GAY!" "JANG KEUN SUK PERVERT BEHAVIOUR IN VIDEO" so on so forth my jaw dropped when I saw him between those booties and the actions he did too but at the same time I couldn't help smiling I am anxious to see what people have to say about it.
I haven't seen Super Junior members making any complaints about hacked accounts, being followed or over all annoyance with anyone but then again I do not read Hangul so what do I know? though no elf's on my twitter have been making a fuss.
JYJ fans have reason to celebrate from recent talk they will be performing in Tokyo Dome.... JJ's lyrics to his songs are being translated and posted everywhere but I am now finding different translations all over the place.
http://sorryurlhere.tumblr.com/post/44007241774/after-reading-those-jaejoong-lyrics These lyrics had Ovaries around the world exploding. I have seen posts recently on twitter some fans wanting Yoochun solo album seems to be the main request they are asking for. I haven't seen much in regards to xiah but I have restricted the amount of jyj fans I have on my twitter because they are the fans I have the least tolerance for DB5K fans Homin+JYJ fans are all extreme in one thing or another. Extreme Shippers,Extreme solo fans of certain members who practically tear the group apart. Extreme fans who hate on one group or the other because they are no longer a group of 5 and so many other things. JYJ fans get extreme though really I guess it's not to say their fans since most starting the troubles are "solo" fans of one of the 3 members making trouble because so and so has more commercials or so and so is doing a solo tour or this one is in dramas and this one is in a movie this one now has a solo album so why not the other.
Dating rumors on the rise include Homin's Min Changmin and Victoria are in the rumor mill in result of some very creepy fan work. Victoria posted a picture from her meal on twitter and fans looked at the very small reflections in get this a spoon! Seriously you nothing better to do then look for reflections in objects in photos.
http://www.officiallykmusic.com/fans-find-more-evidence-claiming-victorias-and-changmins-relationship/
How obsessed do you have to be to check things like that? Obsession is a disorder it is a sickness. Other person in the rumor mill is Sooyoung She is being matched with a actor. This Sooyoung second dating scandal.
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